I can tell you three very practical, as well as scriptural things that will help you stop quarreling. Note that I said “you,” not your husband…while it takes two to argue, one can continue to try. If we aren’t paying attention, we can be sucked into the vortex of a quarrel before we even realize it.
These three things have worked remarkably for me and I believe they will for you too because they are based on God’s Word. Oh, you will still have “off” times with your husband and still have to discuss things but you don’t have to be quarrelsome. If you will practice these helps, you may even notice you stop enabling your husband to be quarrelsome, if he is so inclined.
(Excerpt from Chapter Six of Your Desire Shall be for Your Husband – all rights reserved by author)